Understand How Attraction Works for Her

Women are different from men. You need to accept this fact and deal with it. Men are simple creatures. When a man sees a beautiful, sexy woman, he instantly feels an attraction, and that's really all it takes. If a woman is good-looking, she's likely to attract every guy she passes on the street. But does the same apply for women? The answer playa is no. Women usually have 'attraction mechanisms' that are triggered by things other than looks, and these are usually very specific for each individual woman. While an attractive woman is like a skeleton key, able to unlock most any male heart, women are looking for certain qualities in a man that makes them feel something, not just a guy who fits some arbitrary standard of attractiveness. It's called chemistry, and if you don't fit her lock, sorry, dawg.

Time to move on.

Don't Be Too Much of a Nice Guy

This one should come as no surprise, since everyone knows that women never seem to be attracted to nice guys. You've probably been completely infatuated with a girl who dates

an unending string of bastards, only to cry on your shoulder and complain that she can't find any nice men. And you think ‘Well, I'm a nice guy.....' Unfortunately, it doesn't work that way. Women don't choose a guy because of how nice he is; they choose him because they feel a powerful, gut-level attraction to him, and being nice doesn't exactly bring that out in them. Being different, enigmatic and frustrating does because it makes you challenging and exciting.

Realize that you'll never convince her to like you

Contrary to popular belief, persistence rarely pays off. It's a myth perpetuated by

romantic comedies and popular sitcoms that you can convince a woman to become attracted to you, either through dogged perseverance, extravagant gifts, or grand romantic gestures. But just try standing outside the object of your affection's window, holding a ghetto blaster over your head and blaring her favourite song, and you'll find you're more likely to get a restraining order than a kiss. Bottom line? You will never, ever, ever, ever change the way a woman feels about you. A woman knows within five seconds of meeting that you're "the one," and if you ain't, you can beg, bribe, reason, and cajole all you want, and you'll still strike out.

Don't Share How You Feel Too Early

This is another bad habit propagated by Hollywood. In every romantic movie, there's that scene in which the sweet but sort of dim male character professes his undying love and devotion to the beautiful but clueless character. It's usually raining, and she's most likely engaged to marry some rich jerk the next day. After his big confession, accompanied by dizzying violin crescendos, she has an epiphany, kicking herself for appreciating this amazing, sensitive man who's been right under her nose the whole time. This always works in the movies. In real life, it almost never does. You need to realize that, if she's an attractive woman, she's already had 50 guys give her this speech since high school, and every single one of them thought that he was the star of her movie. In reality, all you are is another in a long string of guys who confuses infatuation with love, indicating that you aren't mature enough for her to take seriously. You're giving away all of your power, all of your mystery, and all you're going to get from her is pity. Relax. If she likes you, there's plenty of time to let your actions speak for your feelings.